The women position in society has gradually changed nowadays. However, many problems of teenagers, such as juvenile delinquency, arise from the fact that they have working mother and do not have enough time to get care from their mother.
Some people argue for that statement above for the reason that they think working mother do not have enough time to care for their children. They spend almost their time everyday at work, and when they are back, they will be so tired and cranky. The responsibility for child rearing, they delegate it to babysitters, as a consequence children grow up with lack of parental guidance. As the result, they feel lonely and unacceptable at home, then they try to find a way to protest their parents by doing something negative, such as smoking, drugs and free sex.
There also some good reasons why women decided to work. One of it is to support their financial. Father as a bread winner has not enough income to cover all the family's necessities, then mother try to support it by working. Moreover, globalization has also changed women position in society. Men and women consider to have the same right in terms of implementing their skills and abilities. Being a career women is one of the way to express their self.
It is clear that there are some good arguments on both side, but the most important is women should know their priorities whether to have a good career or to take care their children. They should consider their children indeed need their fully attention. Children's future are on parents' hands.
Friday, 27 March 2009
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but then, dont you think it's a shared responsibilities between the mother and father? i mean, the child is not only the mother's but the father's as well.
ReplyDeleteand in times like the present, it is not enough for just the father to be the sole breadwinner. the mother plays a part for the economical aspects of the family.
it just have to come down to time management. i know it is easier said than done but it happened everywhere. not every child whom both parents are working turn to be the bad ones. it is just a matter on the family upbringing. sometimes, when the mother who is a stay at home mum who looks after the child, it doesnt mean that the child wont be a rebelious one when he grows up.
yeah i agree with you, but naturally, women are good in child rearing and men are good to be a breadwinner so they should share their responsibility according to their nature rite?
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